why this happened ...

i wasn't going to say anything, BUT i'm getting sick of people comparing what Beyonce did on the grammy's to what mylie did on the VMAs.

let me make my first point: SHE IS BEYONCE. (even though i shouldn't have to go on, i will)

two words. gor - geous.

secondly, she is a grown ass woman, who has earned respect among colleagues and the public with her TALENT. she did not come onto the music scene as this sex crazed maniac (ahem ri-ri).  yes, she had a song titled "bootylicious", but it wasn't sexually offensive, it was kitchy if anything, even lame (sorry bey). she wasn't out sleeping with half of young Hollywood, although lord knows she could have. instead she focused on her work. like an artist should. she keeps her private life ridiculously private considering her fame, so if she wants to let us in, then by all means, the people are waiting (and if you aren't, turn the other cheek and let me know so i can cut you out my life)!

oh come on people!

thirdly, she didnt do this sexual performance to get a reaction. and i will confidently say this. she did it, because she fucking wanted to. and when you're the queen, that's what you do. mylie and co. do things just to push the envelope. beyonce doesn't need to push the envelope - she sets it, slaps a stamp on it, mails it to herself, and then sets it on fire.

she does not need your permission.

fourth, she is a married woman. it's not like she's singing about having sex or being sexual with loads of guys or guys she doesn't know or one night stands. the queen is talking about riding her kings surfboard (surfboart as the internet so lovingly puts it). she is empowering the married woman to maintain a hot love life. keep preaching bey, your congregation is in session.

too  much power for one photo, blue had to look away.

fifth, (and not last, but last for the sake of i can go on forever) people find it necessary to mention that she is a mother. she's also a performer, singer, artist, dancer, sex goddess, and wife. so let's not just focus on one of the hats she wears. also, i have a mother, who - how should i say this - is expressive at times. it doesn't take away from the fact that she is a great mother. so when blue ivy is old enough to see this performance, she wont think my mom is a disgusting pig (shell probably be embarrassed cause its her mom) but guess what, later that day they'll go swimming in the turquoise ocean of st. tropez, while jay smokes a cigar on their yacht, and they listen to the blueprint and reminisce about what an expansive career and fucking fantastic life they have.

god damn.